Urge surfing
Recovery language
Definition
A coping skill in which you notice an urge, describe what it feels like in the body, and wait it out without acting — riding it like a wave instead of fighting it. It works because urges are time-limited; the skill removes the need to win an argument with yourself.
Preferred phrasing
safe to use as written.
Source
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Betttr. "Urge surfing." The Gambling Recovery Glossary. https://betttr.net/glossary/urge-surfing/ (accessed 2026-09-20).
Last updated: 2026-09-20.
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